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The Light is Ours: Memoirs & Movements by Avabal B. Wadia

Wednesday 14 April 2004, by Arnavaz S. MAMA

Published in 2001
by the International Planned Parenthood Federa­tion, Regent’s College, Inner Circle, Regent’s
Park, London NW1 4NS, UK. Pp: xiv + 706.

Price: Rs 850.

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Wadia with Prime Minister
Wadia with Prime Minister A. B. Vajpayee who released the book on August 23, 2001

«When l was asked to write my memoirs, I found that my own life has been so intertwined with my work with people and organizations that I find it impos­sible to detach the two. I could write about the organizations without mentioning myself; but I cannot write about myself without tracing organizational developments since I was always there, somewhere. Especially in the founding and in the growth of IPPF (International Planned Parenthood Federation) and FPAI (Family Planning Association of Iïidia), I was always involved in some capacity orthe other, mostly in the background, and sometimes in the foreground,» states Wadia who was honored as the IPPF’s foundermemberin 1973 at its 21st anniversary, was its president for six eventful years (1983-89) when the organization received the United Nations Population Award in 1985 and the Third World Prize in 1987.

It seems my life work presented itself to me rather than my consciously searching for it, even when I made a choice between a career in law or in voluntary service. It was an acceptance of opportunities and events, with a cer­tain tranquil acquiescence. This was influencedby my early upbringing with its strong emphasis on idealism (to which I still unashamedly hold, old fashioned though it may sound) and in striving to achieve the goals set out, even if success be limited.

In many ways my legal background colored my approach to social work. I tried always to be relevant, brief, unam­biguous and objective. As president, I kept in mind the dictum of Lord Acton that ‘there is no worse heresy than that the office sanctifies the holder of it.

The citation that the FPAI presentedto Wadia when she laid down office as president in 1998 after 34 eventful years notes that the Government of lndia, which frequently drew on her expertise and experience awarded her the Padma Shri in 1971 and the Padma Bhushan in 1981. Among several other awards that this “indomitable champion of family planning” received were the Sanjay Gandhi Award for Science and Technology in 1983, the Woman of the Year Award in 1985 and the Mahila Shiromani Award in 1990. The influential Earth Times of New York billed Wadia among the Top One Hundred outstanding personalities of the world, describing her as the “founder of the family planning movement and the grand dame of the estab­lishment.”

In an easy, unhurried style Wadia traces her long and committed life from asheltered childhood in Colombo where «beauty was a natural right of existence and did not need to be sought,» the murder of a beloved men by the cook led to a lifetime of vegetarianism. The nostalgia of gentler ways in gentler times come home to thereader. Though gener­ally indulgent of Avabai’s childish escapades, an occasional complaint found its way to her father Dorabji’s ears. «On such occasions his face turned serious and hejust looked at me with a stern eye — and my knees buckled.»

Wadia was in England when Marga­ret Sanger, the American family-planning pioneer addressed the All-India Women’s Conference (AIWC) in 1935 and a resolution favoring birth control measures for the benefit of women’s health was passed by a majority.

The first time I heard the words “birth control” I was revolted. This was at a meeting held in a women’s club in London and the speaker had gone on to refer to the “yellow peril” of the teeming millions of Chinese and others and the need to keep down such a menace. This was in the early 1930s when all sorts of ideas were milling around in confusing profusion… I never came across the concept again until nearly 20 years had passed and I was in India and an active volunteer in the AIWC.

Even at that later period, I gave the matter long thought. Was it natural, was it ethical, was it moral, was it healthy, did it encourage selfishness, promiscuity, salacity? But what finally decided me was its utility as a means of helping women to get out of the trap of biological compulsion and of the societal pressures for frequent childbearing which could ruin their health, cause neglect of their children, impoverish families and keep women tied to procreation. I was deeply affected when I read a speech of Dr Lakshmi Joshi (who later married Gen­eral Raja Rajwade) who said that Indian women were fated to a life that “oscil­lated between gestation and lactation until death wound up the sorry tale”.

Reading up on the history and philosophy of the concept of birth control Wadia found Egyptian papyri, references in the Brihadranayaka Upanishad, the Kamasutra and the Dharmashastras, the Old Testament of the Bible, the Islamic Hadith and the writings of Confucius, Kautilya, Plato and Aristotle, Ricardo, Maithus, John Stuart Mill…

«Practical steps to try to help parents came a little later when some bold pio­neers began to advocate the use of devices to prevent the conception of children. Their chiefdesire was to do something to help in the alleviation of abject poverty and to raise the brutish level at which the poor, andparticularly women, lived. These pioneers who tried to improve women’s conditions were misunderstood and had to face continuous fierce attacks on socalled moral grounds, but they did not flinch from theirhumanitarian task» learnt Wadia. Marie Stopes in England, Sanger in America, Elise Ottensen-Jensen in Swe­den tried to provide simple sex education and the early techniques forthe control of fertility.

The Swedish National Association for Sexual Knowledge organized a conference in Stockholm in 1946 to reestab­lish international links disheveled by World War II. It was followed by an international conference in Cheltenham, England 1948 when Lord Horder, the King’s physician, in his presidential address noted, «As with food, so here the road is a long one, but somewhere down that road is a gate marked “Biological Control”. Open it, and we shall begin to substitute design for accident, and happiness for misery…» The selection of a name for the international body proved divisive until a compromise British suggestion International Committee for Planned Parenthood was provisionally adopted. When Sanger realized that the FPAI was making headway and that India was emerging as an Asian leader on the world stage, she sought FPAI commitment to organize their third lnternational Conference in Bombay in 1952. Notwithstanding «the postwar situation in India with food rationing and other shortages, our comparative inexperience in preparing for a world conference, lack of finance, the newness of family planning programs and our need to develop ourownlocalprograms», the FPAI swung into action. They booked the Cowasji Jehangir Hall — the best in the city at the time — invited delegates from all over the country, kept the Press informed, and set up office in a room at the Greens Hotelprovided free of charge by J.R.D. Tata. Prime Minister Jawaharlal Nehru sent a special message stating, «In a country like India, with a very large population, this question has an even greater significance than elsewhere. It deserves, therefore, the fullest study here and the application of such methods as are found suitable from all points of view.» Vice President of India Dr S. Radhakrishnan’s speech «became famous and was quoted everywhere.» Though the Press took substantial interest and reported the proceedings in depth, «We were totally unaware then that we were history makers… We did not think to collect Press cuttings or arrange for photographs to be taken», notes Wadia.

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With Gandhi
Wadia with Mahatma Gandhi in London in 1935 (centre row, 4th from right)

Wadia traces the growth of the IPPF, the beginning of government grants from a number of countries, the strong support of outstanding doctors and scien­tists, the invention of various contraceptive devices. The IPPF maintained its distance from the manufacturers, carrying out its own independent clinical trials where feasible to avoid any allega­tions of the organization making money.

Abortion remained a bugbear for the IPPF: «Induced abortions, legal or ille­gal, were prevalent and the struggle to change laws to legalize abortion on broadbased humanitarian grounds was at times bitterly waged against religious dogma and even politico-military preju­dices.»” The European region, fearful of any practice that was reminiscent of Nazi practices, was generally uncomfortable with demographically driven ideas: «When India adopted voluntary sterilization as a method of family planning, there was a certain inhibition in coun­tries like Sweden in approving the measure. In Sweden an Institute of Racial Biology hadbeen established in 1921 . In 1926 a law was passed allowing sterilization without the patient’s consent in the belief that social misbehavior could be inherited, and in 1941 a Sterilisation Act was passed under which the operation could be carried out under certain eugenic, socialormedical (often psychiatric) grounds. Politi­cians also argued on eco­nomic grounds that it was important to limit the size of families, especially those with a history of antisocial behavior. It was many years later that the Swedish Government investigated why thousands of women were forcibly sterilized on eugenic grounds between the 1930s and 1970s», writes Wadia. The Roman Catholic Church continued to be staunchly antiabortion in its preaching. As late as 1993 Pope John Paul II urged the 30,000 to 70,000 estimated rape victims in former Yugoslavia not to abortbut to «accept the enemy… transform an act of violence into an act of love». The Swedish Fam­ily Planning Association protested the Pope’s «inhuman attitude… ignorance and lack of empathy» as did the IPPF’s European Network. Indeed, it was in the Catholic countries of South America and Mexico where illegal and often fatal abortions were endemic though some pioneer doctors risked their reputations and medical practice to help the poor women «desperately seeking a way out ofpregnancy». The formation of Latin America’ s family planning asso­ciation in the teeth of religious, political and cultural factors traced by Wadia make for fascinating reading. Similar problems were also faced — and overcome — in Buddhist and Islamic coun­tries.

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With Nehru
(L to R) With Lady Rama Rau, PrimeMinister Jawaharlal Nehru and Laxmi Menon, Dy Min of External Affairs

China addressed its problem by raising the statutory age of marriage — 23 and above for women, 27 and above for men—while giving boys and girls equal opportunity to study, to work and be productive. It also provided contracep­tive services.

The first UN Population Conference was held in Rome in 1954. At the IPPF’s sixth conference in New Delhi in 1959 the pro and anti sterilization lobbies nearly had a headon collision: «In the FPAI, our small paid staff was confined to doctors and paramedics and some office help; policies and directions and even implementation depended greatly on volunteers who had come together in a democratic system... Family planning was still a controversial and certainly not a popular cause, and did not attract even seasoned social workers and doctors, let alone newcomers, who preferred the wellbeaten paths of welfare work and medical relief.»

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With Sanjiva Reddy
Investiture of the Padma Bhushan by President of lndia B. Sanjiva Reddy

Wadia is wont to intersperse humorous personal anecdotes to liven the saga of intellectual and political confrontations that dogged the movement over the years. During a sight-seeing tour of Belgrade after an lPPF conference Wadia found herself jammed in a lavatory: «I called out, and the local waiters and even some delegates tried to open it from the outside, to no avail. They could not break down the door, especially as the lavatory was so small. Fortunately, it had a ventilator opening over the door and a small, narrow chair was lowered inside; I climbed onto it and eased myselfout of the ventilator, crabwise, with my sari riding above my knees. Many hands helped me down and escorted me with exclamations of sympathyto atable, where I was offered a glass of cherry brandy. Unwittingly, I took one sip, and the fire itcausedinside me gave me more than total recovery!»

A particularly stressful chapter opened for the IPPF at the UN International Conference on Population in Mexico City in 1984 when Wadia was president of the body. Even as the Israeli and Arab delegations threatened to clash in an unseemly import of local politics into the international conference, the US’s Reagan admin­istration announced that «the United States would not contribute to those programs of which abortion was a part nor would it any longer contribute directly or indirectly to family planning programs funded by governments orpri­vate organizations that advocated abor­tion as an instrument of population controL (Moreover) United States would no longer contribute funds to private orga­nizations that performed or actively promoted abortion as a means of family planning even with their own funds, and that it would require assurances from governments that US aid was not being used for abortions. It also applied these principles to the funding of UNFPA (United Nations Family Planning Asso­ciation).»

Though abortion was not considered a family planning method by IPPF, this US assertion was resented as impinging on national sovereignty since even the use of non-US funds for abortion programs would bar an organization from receiving US funding.

At the request of USAID (United States Agency for International Devel­opment), IPPF had adopted a system of not using US funds for any abortion-related purpose (even for discussions on it) and it kept a separate financial ac­count which was audited by the US Agency. In India, for example, where abor­tions were permitted under the Indian Medi­cal Termination of Pregnancy Act of 1971 , the FPAI was allocated funds by IPPF from its other sources, specifically excluding US funding. IPPF could not go any further and allow US policy to veto all national and legal activi­ties of its affiliates around the world in respect of abortion.
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With Dr Radhakrishnan
(L to R, 1st row): Kamaladevi Chattopadhay, Dr Radhakrishnan, Rama Rau (2nd row) Vaidehi Char, Mithan Lam and Wadia. Two friends in the rear.

The Population Crisis Cornrnittee dubbed it “voodoo derno­graphics”. London’s Sunday Times stated that «Two immensely powerful leaders, the Pope and President Reagan, are cornbining to do rnankind a profound disser­vice». And the World Bank presi­dent A. W. Clausen offered to “at least double” the Bank’s aid for population prograrns. The outcry resounded around the world.

(The) IPPF stood firrn so, when its existing contract carne to an end in Decernber 1984, the USAID funding stopped and IPPF lost the US $ 17 million grant (includingcornrnodities). The rno­rnentous decision was arrived at after due consideration. It was felt thattheFederation and its rnernberassociations stood for certain fundarnenta! principles and the possibilities of grants could not be allowed to shake thern.

Eventually a shortfall in funds was averted by private foundations like the Rockefeller, Hewlett, Mellon and Packard and the governrnents of Japan, Sweden and UK increased their grants. The US policy changed with the coming of President Bill Clinton.

Wadia describes the glitter of the cerernonial presentation of the UN Popu­lation Award for 1985 which she received at the UN headquarters on behalf of IPPF. Standing next to the tall, digni­fled UN Secretary General Javier Pérez de Cuéllar, the dirninutive Wadia believed she was “hardly visible!” But the New York Times noted, «When it cornes to prornoting farnily planning worldwide, Avabai B. Wadia, the president of IPPF, has few equals.»

She describes the UN Conference on Wornen in Nairobi in 1985 where 12,000 delegates attended (by then IPPF had won the Category I Consultative Status with the Econornic and Social Council) and a nurnber of other international rneets up to and including the Fourth World Conference on Wornen in Beijing in 1995. In the rneantirne Wadia had cornpleted her second terrn as IPPF president and in 1989 at a conference in Ottawa stepped down and was honored with the designation of Patron.

The latter half of the book deals with the establishrnent and history of the FPAI where she started and carried on as «honorary general secretary and unpaid chief executive rolled into one», until she was elected president in 1963.

Wadia describes her style of func­tioning: «As president, I tried to draw the best available talent and encourage teamwork. It was my good fortune that I had the privilege and support of these stal­warts who did a magnificent job and ensured that the FPAI earned its reputa­tion for forward thinking, excellent programs, transparent accountability and wise spending. I must have given thousands of speeches and written countless papers. It was a constant exercise and I did not trot out a standard speech but attuned myselfto the occasion, although I sometimes laughed at myself silently forallthe solemnwords Iwas uttering! … I was first among equals rather than maintain in a pyramidal hierarchy.» Her motto was, “«Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly.»

The FPAI worked closely with the government’s development bodies and though it received grants from the goyernment its autonomy and style of func­tioning were zealously guarded. Slowly, deliberately, the FPAl established a pres­ence in India’ s many backward areas, using ingenious ploys to reach out to the ignorant women. It was in Belgaum where, unable to breach the shyness of the women folk, the volunteers went from house to house, inviting the ladies to a social gathering. They were requested to bring an earthenware lamp with them.

When they gathered with their diyas, the many flickering flames became «a festi­val of lights and they exclaimed, “The lamp is mine, but the light is ours”!»

Simultaneously FPAI’s own volun­teers and staff continued to undergo medical, clinical and training programs based on which they spread the message to the people. Not only the containment of fertility but vital information for the children was very much a part of the scheme and mothers and mothers-in-law brought their daughters and daughters-in-law to be taught the rudiments of a safe and happy marital life. The FPAI also worked in harmony with government’s environmental policies, using their own resource base to widen the villagers’ scope of knowledge in pre­serving the world around them. It helped them develop subsidiary sources of income, trained local midwives, fostered various skills and the will for selfhelp.

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Child Wadia
Avabal on her second birthday

Thanks to technology the world is changing and, ever alert, Wadia can discern the problems generated by technology. New answers are needed but the measure of commitment remains. Writes Wadia: «Today’s young people are the new pioneers and they have enormous challenges to face. New advocacy is needed for the dawning technological age where the labor of man, his touch with the earth and the elements, the hu­man feelings of compassion and service, seem to be giving way. In the new technological and space age, there will be reproductive and health challenges awaiting the young of a different kind — such concerns of human life as genetics, don­ing, reproduction without sex. But they may still feelthey need to be “concerned”, “committed” and “volunteers” in some sense, that is, still be the pathfinders of their age and the solvers of its prob­lems.»

An esoteric subject, a multitude of people, places and ideas, Wadia has skilfully collated an 80-year-canvas into a very readable book that addresses the heart as well as the head.

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